“The information in this book works. It helped fix our relationship and we couldn’t be happier! Five months and counting…”
The book has 8 chapters and 62 pages.
You will be greeted by a short introduction that briefly covers what the book is all about. The book has 4 basic parts: Understanding, getting your head straight, assessing your situation, and working out the plan. Every part is detailed in the chapters of the book.
Chapter 1: Understanding Why Your Relationship Ended (And Why It’s Not Over Just Yet).
This chapter is all about explaining why lovers say goodbye. Men and women leave relationships for different reasons. The chapter seeks to explain the rationality of your break up and why it didn’t just ‘surprise you’ one day. There is a reason you “just broke up.”
Chapter 2: Don’t Panic – Your Key to Winning Back Their Love.
In this chapter, T.W. talks about how you can suppress the panicky feelings you may be having, show you how to calm down, and strategize about your relationship. He explains to you why you feel the way you do, what to do to feel better, and why it is important to get over these bad feelings.
At the end of this chapter there is a very powerful technique called “the fast forward technique”
Chapter 3: Removing the Splinter in Your Relationship?
T.W. Jackson invites you to analyze your relationship and what went wrong. He talks about how to pinpoint the problem you had with your relationship in the first place. More specifically this chapter is about deciding whether your relationship can be saved or not. Exceptional attention is paid to infidelity and how it can affect your decision to fight for your relationship or let it go.
Chapter 4: Re-Igniting the Spark of Passion and Desire.
This is the first step of your action plan. In this chapter the author explains that you MUST BREAK THE PATTERN! This pattern is one of “linked feelings.” Starting with the body and ending with your mind, the author goes through each aspect with you and what you might change in yourself to help you ignite the spark of passion and desire between you and your partner.
Chapter 5: Dates and Lovers – How Other People Can Actually Bring You Back Together With Your Ex.
This chapter talks about dating other people. T.W. explains that dating other people is exactly what you need to do and why. This action will show your ex that you are a confident, self-assured person and that you are moving on. He discusses the dangers of the rebound relationship.
Chapter 6: Easing Back Into Your Relationship to Solidify Your Love.
I would have to say that this is one of the most important chapters if not ‘the’ most important of the entire book. T.W. will walk you through every single step you have to make for the first contact with your ex, what to say, how to say it, what to do on your date, what to do if the date goes wrong, what to do if it goes right, etc. The final goal of yours and also of this chapter, is to show you how to get your ex back!
Chapter 7: Maintaining the Fun and Love Without Dredging Up Old Wounds and Arguments.
In Chapter 7 you will learn the necessary precautions to follow to keep you from repeating the same mistakes that led you to the breakup in the first place. This is a very good chapter for couples who may not be separated but are still having trouble with their relationship and want to do something to fix it.
Chapter 8: When Your Relationship Can’t Be Saved – Moving On With Grace.
In the last chapter T.W. Jackson explains that sometimes things just don’t work out as planned. It might not be the right time or they might not be the right person for you, even though you wanted to get your ex back. Each person and each relationship is different and requires some compassion. He explains what to do next and the pitfalls to avoid.
“Moving on is one of the hardest lessons in life, but you’ll be able to do it with grace if you take care of yourself and keep your head held high.” from The Magic of Making Up.
There are bonuses such as “The Clean Slate Method”, videos of T.W. Jackson himself answering reader questions and giving tips, as well as the audio version of the book for those of us that don’t like to read.
In conclusion I find that “The Magic of Making Up” by T.W. Jackson is a comprehensive guide to saving or renewing your relationship. It is only 62 pages long but avoids the fluff of other books. It goes straight to the point, making it an interesting read that will never bore you. It holds your hand from the beginning to the end, telling you what to do, and how to do it, and when to do it.
You are never left in the dark.
The author’s dedication to answering reader emails adds a tremendous value to the book. He also records videos (he has an ongoing series on Youtube). If you have problems with your relationship and you do not want to spend hours in the library or spend hundreds of dollars for counseling, this e-book is worth looking into! I highly recommend it and It is 100% guaranteed…